December 2011
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singlevirginstudent-deactivated asked: Hey, I'm thinking of growing my natural hair out because I live in the UK (outside of London) and there are not a lot of black salons near me while I'm at uni, but we have a lot of bad weather here and it makes my natural hair break, what products would you recommend to protect hair against weather? LOVE THE BLOG!
November 2011
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Anonymous asked: How do you deal with letting your hair grow out? :/ i'm having such a hard time cause I have little patience.
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Anonymous asked: i want to start a blog like yours but im so afraid of all the negativity im going to get in my ask box. any advice?
etriordan asked: Hey! You probably get this a lot, but I wanted to tell you how absolutely educational I've found your blog. I'm a white girl, living in New Zealand, and I grew up in an all white neighbourhood, so more or less my only exposure to black culture has been through movies and music. I came across your blog by chance, and have just read through the whole thing - I had to google a lot of things...
ballysass asked: So, one of the black girl problems popped up on my dash so I figured i'd check it out...I just wanted to say that I love it! I'm white and I follow white girl problems, but I get pissed because they aren't just specifically white girl problems, they're just problems they try to make "white." Anyways, I just really like reading it because since I've been in...
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ariuslemon asked: I'm not black or anything. Often mistaken for a half african american/half white, when actually I am neither of those races :o But anyway, getting to the point, your blog is absolutely wonderful. It's entertaining and insightful. Fuck all of your haters. You seem like a such a beautiful down to earth confident girl. I wish I had a friend like you, damn that'd be boss. Your amazing...
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Anonymous asked: i'm a white girl that my black friends call "the whitest girl EVER" and the first post i saw from your blog was the one about white guys only flirting by saying things like "i love chocolate" which i found funny so i started reading. but now my mind is like blown, reading about the light skin v. dark skin thing was crazy bc i go to school in queens and i know a lot of...
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eadscau asked: This is to that person, not you: okay, we all had that time when we were insecure crying little kids, but she probably isnt crying in the corner. she is probably one of the realist, funniest, coolest, confident people in this world. okay? so if you dont have anything nice to say..
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shishibaby asked: I wish I knew you in real life so I could be your friend lol You're hilarious. I enjoy your blog :)
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Anonymous asked: your blog is pathetic
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artbychristina asked: You meant that "whoops" (in reply to an anon) sarcastically, right? I mean, I really think that anon deserves to be made fun of. Mostly because REALLY??? Saying white people don't use enough salt is racist? That would not be true in any universe, especially this one because you can't be racist towards white people.
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Anonymous asked: Pretty sure if it needs more salt and you put it on there, you're gonna have salt diabetes. Enjoy it.
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October 2011
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shuraiya asked: Your blog cracks me up! :) Never stop posting these! I have a question, with a ridiculously long back story: I was a teaching assistant for a documentary film making class and one group focused on our local AME church. One young man in the film mentioned it's really hard in our town to find a barbershop where he can get a fade done. What is a fade?
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Anonymous asked: ok, Whats the best flat iron to use for black people with super thick hair? I just can't seem to find a good one. Any suggestions?
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Anonymous asked: I love you and what you do here. Thank you.
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whatblindeyessee asked: I haven't read all the post that you've put on Tumblr. There may be some that I don't agree with but I still respect your opinion on everything you have to say. Everyone in the world has a different opinion on the same subjects. No one will ever see life the same way as the person beside them. They need to accept the differences, embrace it and move on with their lives. Don't...
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lbuoy2-deactivated20111221 asked: So...you followers are retarded. The Irrational Black Woman meme is hilarious. Memes aren't meant to be an ethnography of a culture, it takes stereotypes (that usually only apply to a small percentage of whatever group/culture its about) and exaggerate them and make them funny. But I mean hey...I guess they can think whatever they want tho, just sending some support.
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lbuoy2-deactivated20111221 asked: If you were writing about the problems of middle-aged Black women in contemporary American society, yeah maybe you'd be too young to run this blog. But what you have here is a cool blog about what black girls/young women experience on a daily basis. Age has nothing to do with it. Your followers suck. Sorry that my last two "questions" weren't really "questions" but...
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Baby, there's a shark in the water: Let's be real... →
purplediamondskies:
When something is stated in a general context and you get upset, a part of you is seeing some of that generalization in yourself and that’s why you get offended. If you weren’t mad you’d feel no need to explain yourself. If it didn’t apply, you would feel no need to justify your life even though…
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Anonymous asked: your age is the reason why you dont understand anything and the anons are right you shouldnt run this blog
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Anonymous asked: i justwanna slap yuo
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iplemons asked: Hello, white girl here. I love your blog, it's funny, smart and as someone who went to school with probably max 20 black people I do somewhat understand your problems of other races just not getting it! Also suggestions: putting on a skirt and having it higher in the back than the front. other ones: tattoos only show up in black and sometimes not even then, when you have a tattoo of a name...
cheatersyd asked: so... this is totally off topic but.. do you watch Glee?
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Anonymous asked: tips on getting a big butt?
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Anonymous asked: My friend doesn't have tumblr but I showed her your blog and she thinks you've captured her life so well!! She now refers to your blog as Deshemia's Problems.
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Anonymous asked: Do you have any suggestions as to places that sell jeans for females with wide hips(size 42)?
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fuckyeahmelissafabello asked: I'm white. But I date black girls. This blog is fucking phenomenal.
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soundofswag asked: I go to high school in a really non-diversified city... there are 7 black people. This blog = my life. <3 Keep it real, specially when things are tough... you totally get it!
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somebodytobelieveinyou asked: Uhh what's the big chop? I recently cut off ALL my hair (I'm black, ignore the icon) and it was a lot of fun. I don't miss my hair. It meant nothing to me. Just got me made fun of a lot.
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imperfectxrebel asked: i saw a reblog, looked at your page and within 3 pages i knew i had to follow. too funny and all of this is true. love this page!
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Anonymous asked: Kudos for you for liking Popeyes more than KFC. No offense to KFC but I find them a tad bit too overrated. lol
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Anonymous asked: do you like popeyes or kfc. if so which one do you like better
Anonymous asked: what's the can of grease for?
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